Helping Kids Adjust to Moms Pregnancy
(NewsUSA) - The arrival of a new baby is an exciting event for most families. But for those with a child already in place, delivering the news that there will be an addition to the family can be downright stressful.
And while some siblings may be overjoyed at the thought of a little brother or sister, many children tend to go into the experience kicking and screaming.
Whatever the case, experts say that some sibling rivalry is to be expected, and how the rivalry is handled will be the greatest predictor in how quickly the new baby is accepted.
The following tips may help soon-to-be parents transition their young ones from only child to big brother or sister:
* Start early. While you don't have to announce your pregnancy right away, sooner rather than later is a good rule of thumb where children are concerned. Breaking the news early on will give your child more time to adjust before the baby arrives.
* Listen to your child's concerns. When broaching the subject with your child, listen to what's really being said. Children often don't know how to articulate their feelings and will say one thing, but mean something completely different. By listening carefully and asking follow-up questions, you can help your child communicate what is truly going on in his mind, as well as alleviate any fears and worries about the new baby.
* Encourage "playtime" with the unborn baby. One way children can feel closer to their new sibling is by feeling the baby kick or talking to Mom's growing belly. They can even play music or stories for the baby using a prenatal system called Baby Bee Bright (www.babybeebright.com). It comes with a CD player, five CDs filled with nursery rhymes, soothing nature sounds, lullabies and classical music as well as headphones that enable family members to listen along. Would-be brothers and sisters can also talk to the baby through the system's mini-microphone.
* Focus on consistency. Children often don't want to know how their lives will change, but rather, what will stay the same. Assuring a sibling that things will remain "normal" can ease the transition.
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